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目标片段在现代社会中的人之所以一直都生活在攀比的焦虑和不快乐之中，是因为欲望和力量的不平衡。那不管我们通过何种方式，不管是通过增加自己的力量，还是减少自己的欲望，只要能够达到平衡，我相信我们就可以在很大程度上完全摆脱焦虑的攀比。这是我在这里给大家提供的一个思路和视角。在这个播客的最后一段，我还想要说另外一点就是如何通过不攀比的态度去由衷的欣赏别人。那在这个播客一开始提到的想法就是这个很普遍的想法。
来源片段that shallowness becomes the depth you're capable of having in every experience you encounter. See, that's one of the costs of blindly living in this achievement society. And I guess also the first example in this episode of something we can do to not be at the mercy of it. One thing I personally love about Han's work in particular is that it feels empowering in comparison to some of the other people we've been talking about. Because God, do I hate at this point in my philosophical journey, people that go and say, is it freedom or is it security? I don't know. Maybe some are in the middle, I guess. What are we going to do? Or even worse, someone that
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rub anyone's nose in it like that. I think he's just saying these narcissistic tendencies can get out of hand if you let them, or they can just encompass all of your personality if you're not even aware of how society funnels people in this direction. Now, what happens in this world that emerges where so many people are focused on themselves above everything else? Again, setting their own standards, feeling guilty about anything they do that isn't making them more efficient or optimized right now. What happens to Han is an increase in levels of depression and anxiety. If there's a lot of that going on in the world we're living in, this self-focused ethos many people fall into in life could be part of the reason why.
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现在你不是通过考试进入这个中学，而是一个完全随机的抽签模式。那我在这里对于美国这种系统性态度的描绘，不是为了批判它的意思。但是我希望大家可以从这个对比中看出来，为什么？我说我感到在东方社会，比如说我们自己的国家和日本最近开始流行的对于攀比的拒绝是一个个人性的拒绝。但是在像美国这样的西方社会，对于攀比的拒绝是系统性的拒绝。美国对于攀比的拒绝带来了什么呢？我觉得很多时候它带来的反而是更大的不公，它让一些想要进步的穷人变得更困难了。
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it's just hard to make friends in today's world. I don't have a partner because I just have to focus on myself and my career. I crash and burn and go off on people on the internet because there's just a lot of stupid people in the world today. It's not a coincidence that that person in the Bugatti may have a lot of surface level relationships in their life. It's not a coincidence. They may have a lot of shallow ways that they think about treating other people. It's not a coincidence that they don't have a very deep understanding of anything about how the world works. Somebody might say back to that guy, look, you can wave at me in your Bugatti when I'm out there in the garden. But I'll be sure to wave back at you as you're alone in your Bugatti spouting off some conspiratorial
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就或者说每一次在下面都会有人在下面分享，跟自己比二妹跑得快得多的配速，然后再发一个偷笑的照片。我不知道大家有没有意见到，这是一种让人感觉到很不舒服的攀比，不会给人带来喜悦和鼓励的，完全没有意义的攀比。那很多情况下，接近于一种冷嘲热讽，而且是来自于一个完全不在乎你的陌生人。虽然说我没有二妹这种严肃的跑者精神，但是我也是一个非常认真的瑜伽练习者。其实我也观察到了很相似的情况，类似于这种攀比和打压的情况。