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目标片段这是一种失去秩序的无序的欲望。但是为什么这些人可以在自己无序的激情和欲望中保持坚定不动摇？而我们这些渴望正直渴望公正，渴望做一个好人，渴望不得罪别人，渴望不给别人做坏事的人，却一直在动摇，一直在不坚定，一直在被打败，一直在抛弃转移，我们自己的底线，一直在抛弃，被我们自己视为美德的品格呢。他说，我们内心出现懊恼的时候，我们内心知道哎，怎么又做了这件我不想做的事情，我们就像是被迫喝下一大杯酒的人一样，
来源片段People are often eager to give advice, but those same people are usually not as eager to engage in the kinds of self-discipline that they would advise. Everyone's hypocritical to some degree. And the reason is that we are often constitutionally incapable of confronting our own faults and of seeing our own motives to what they are. But we can see them in other people, right? Oftentimes the vices underlying the actions of others can be immediately clear to us, but they're not clear when we consider ourselves in our own actions.
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So why should it be the case that we take pleasure in it when we see the faults of others? Why do we like to see imperfections in, you know, frankly, our loved ones and our friends? You know, we can come up with some sentimental gooey response that it reminds us that they're human or something like that. The Rochefacco, the answer would be that it inflates our feeling of being justified in our self love. And not because we want to like place ourselves above them, this is not necessarily that certainly could be the case.
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普鲁塔克观察到往往他们会更多变得偏向固执，而粗鲁普遍出于自我学习、自我进步的名义，放弃自己的友善、谦和和对于他人的关照。这是当时那些哲学学派的败笔。所以我们面对那些过于迎合他人，过于顺从他人的年轻人需要做的不是去一刀切，而是不是需要去一刀切掉这些性格，而是要通过理性将其修剪将过度的那一部分，移除之后就会变成一个友谊的品质，对吧？这个温柔的开篇就是我非常为什么我非常喜欢时不时读一会儿普鲁塔克的原因。
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You know, we can come up with some sentimental gooey response that it reminds us that they're human or something like that. The Rochefacco, the answer would be that it inflates our feeling of being justified in our self love. And not because we want to like place ourselves above them, this is not necessarily that certainly could be the case. Look at it this way, if you're aware that you have your own imperfections, when you perceive them and others, it allows you to forgive yourself for them. It allows you to feel better about your own faults. And so that's why it's like it's our having faults that leads to our taking pleasure in others people's faults.
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如愿以偿，那在面对改变你人生决定的时候，你又会如何表现习惯的养成是战胜过度随和的关键。通过经常提醒自己，拒绝不合理的要求，这不仅不会损害我们的形象，反而会让我们更有原则，更值得尊重。我们逐渐能够摆脱这种性格中的弱点。普鲁塔克在第六段，他说，不光光在一些需要拒绝的日常小事上，我们需要训练自己，在一些给予别人赞美的正面反馈上也需要训练自己。下面这个教会我相信听过如何分辨朋友和马屁精的，你应该会感到有点熟悉。